1 post tagged “tactful”
Born on 20th May
Tactful, Diplomatic, Considerate, Romantic, Passionate, Emotionally Dependent, Mischievous
Paranoid & super-sensitive to criticisms. Is petty but a successful negotiator and peace maker. Capable as a master con artist with perfect camouflage and adaptability.
Standard Disclaimer
The numbers from your birthday are the strongest indicators for your inborn personality. However, we still pretty much need to look for additional clues from your birth date's month and the year to get the complete picture, together with your most often called name.
Consequently, here is a broad brush comment in the absence of the birth month and the year.
Pure Numerology aims at practicality in helping you. As such, I do present it to both entertain and challenge you, rather than solely making you feel good. The purpose of life is to fulfil your destiny to realize WHO you really are. YOU are beyond personalities, which happen to be the most important tools you have in life to reach self-realization. Getting rid of what you haven't got in the first place.
The 2009 series of Pure Numerology blog here is about the characters that you are born with, one for each day of the year. The 2010 series will cover one of your Life Paths (Karmic Lessons) that you're destined to learn and follow this life time.
In life, it's
not so much what cards we've been given, it's HOW we deal with them that
matters more. Having said that, I do not emotionally enjoy doing readings on
"extremely negative" personalities.
I've come across too often "positive" personalities that behave badly
and "negative" personalities that are so empowering and beneficial to
others' lives.
So the tip is this: AVOID hone in too much about the "positive" or "negative" aspects of a personality. It is what they DO that counts most, irrespective of their birth dates and their “potentials” or intentions. Moreover, "Nothing is good or bad. But thinking makes it so." (William Shakespeare) There are always great discrepancies between intentions and actions. New Year Resolutions is a typical example. By now, most people's 2009's Resolutions are already dead and buried in their memory lanes far far away or long gone deep in their history files.
I do need to point out that there are serious challenges facing those who are born on 2nd, 3rd, 4th .... 9th WHEN their birth month ALSO corresponds to their birth day. e.g. 2/2 (or 22/2), 3/3, 4/4 ........ 9/9. This is even more so WHEN they do NOT have any "1"s in their birth year or decade. e.g. not having a birth year as 1911, 191x, 19x1, 2001, 2011 or 201x, where "x" is any number .
To ignore the "dark side" of those aspects of personalities do no one any favors. To evolve and improve, we need to change. To change, we need self-awareness. To have self-awareness, we must be open minded enough to question, to doubt and to challenge any understanding of our usual and habitual thinking and feelings. These are all prerequisites to overcome any issues in life.
Even though we are NOT our bodies, NOT our minds, NOT our personalities, they are still the most important tools for us as human beings to overcome our life challenges. As such, we need to understand the NATURE of our body, our mind and our personalities. Pure Numerology acts as their simple but effective pointers.
Ironically enough, it NOT because of their birth dates that they have such & such characters traits and destinies. It is the other way round: BECAUSE they choose to (free will & karma in action) go through the learning curve of certain Life Paths (Karmic Lessons) that they have particular set of numbers (as revealed in their birth dates) to govern and to reflect their destines & personalities. This is the result of the way they exercise their free will in their previous lives. While we are having this PRESENT life, we continue to create our own new karma - good or bad - UNTIL we manage to break the vicious cycle.
If you want to learn Pure Numerology NOW & expedite the learning curve or want to know yourself or love ones better, then either enrol into my Pure Numerology courses or have a personal reading done.
John Ho
Numerology Expert Daily Numeroscope (Vox Blog)
